You Just Know


Recently, a friend of mine was talking to me about her experience with an ex.

Even though it’s been 4 years since they parted ways (and a good thing it was too), he texted her out of the blue wanting to renew relations (as if). Through the tone of his texts, she could tell what he was thinking.

This got me thinking:
– Does she know ‘cos of the amount of time they spent together?
– Does she know ‘cos that’s what she wants to think even if she disagrees with wanting to feel that way?
– Does she know ‘cos she has moved on and he hasn’t?

How do you know?
And how do you know what you are thinking is right or not?
Do we really need to turn to such measures to feel better about ourselves?

I know I am guilty of this too- is this just a survival instinct or is this a way of justifying our behaviour?!

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One response to “You Just Know

  1. YouSoundSingle

    I think as people, especially ones around the same age as ourselves, connect that way. Also, we’ve grown to interpret technology so well, that it really can be very telling. I know I’ve written about modern flirting, and how even through a text, the implications are clear. So maybe it’s both?

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