You know, everyone says relationships are based on truth, honesty, respect, love and mutual attraction. And one always says that it is not about playing a game, it being easy and just feeling right… the other day, I was talking to a friend of mine about her relationship. So far, they have been on about 5 dates, in 6 months time and they are always playing a game, even when they aren’t. Isn’t everything a game?!
What if the not playing of the game is what keeps us out of it? Whether it is the flutter of the eyelids to keep his attention, or a red lipstick, or a nice gesture- we all do something to keep the other person hooked- even if everything is going swimmingly well. Even, once we have it all- some say, the theory is to keep it interesting, keep it fresh while the more cynical say, it is to not get bored.
Either way, I don’t think there is anything in life that is NOT a game!

So whether you realise it or not, we are all a part of the game! And only then, do we create our lives to be the way we want them to be!